The relationship landscape is evolving, making it all the more important for us to be aware of our own intentions and the assumptions we make so that we can communicate what we need while making space to hear the needs of another. Only then can we harmoniously relate, discovering together the areas we agree or agree to disagree on.
Examining yourself with honesty and curiosity, how available are you to partnership? Available as defined by “open to, and interested in partnership,” if the right person crossed your path.
Many of us have been conditioned to deny this interest seeing it as desperate, while others forge it to avoid seeming heartless. If we can release our judgements about what we should want and feel, and tune into what we do want and feel, real intimacy becomes available.
Seeing how challenging or simple it was for you to answer this first question, now assess yourself as honestly as possible on the spectrum of how aware you are of your own needs and intentions when it comes to “dating.”
Finally, how willing are you to make those intentions known to any person you are entertaining romantic connection with?
When do you close? What do you fear? How much energy is it taking for you to withhold the true nature of your experience from those you care about or those you are hoping to connect with?
Whatever your interests and needs for relationship are, it’s important to know them, honor them, and love yourself! It’s the act of reflecting and examining your own heart that leads to the potential for satisfying intimacy as you can more clearly discern with whom to share your beautiful energy and in what ways!
Join us for a virtual, conscious dating or connection experience to explore your self and others.
Love,
Alexandra and humhum
